You Love & You Learn Podcast

You Love & You Learn Podcast

Hosted by: Sarah Yudkin

Welcome to the You Love and You Learn podcast, the place to learn about all things love, relationships, relationship anxiety, and deconstructing the one-size-fits-all narrative of what it means to be in a happy...

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#107 - Stop Outsourcing Your Happiness

We are heading into Valentine's Day month and there will be a ton of messages about having your romantic partner meeting your needs and showering you with love and gifts. While it’s lovely to celebrate our love for...
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#106 - Comparison to Fictional Relationships and RomComs

Reading fiction can be relaxing–unless we’re stuck comparing our lives and relationship to the ones in the books! Then it can become stressful. Just know you are not alone if you feel this way–this episode topic was...
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#105 - Regulating Your Nervous System by Slowing and Softening w/ Alena Winter

In today’s episode, I sat down with Alena Winter, a clinical Naturopath and Nutritionist in New Zealand who is passionate about helping people understand true foundations of health and the things we need in place to...
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#104 - Taking the Pressure Off Gratitude w/ Karden Rabin

Have you ever felt pressure to “just be grateful”? Maybe you have sat down to write a gratitude list before, but it took you a while to think of things about your life, your relationship, your partner–and you felt...
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#103 - Strengthening Your Relationship Mindset in 2025

Having a strong mindset in relationships can be a big game-changer. Our mindset affects the way we think, feel, and behave–so it makes a big difference if we come from a mindset of “why bother?” (victim mindset) or “I...
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#102 - 8 Lessons From My 8-Year Relationship

Nate and I celebrated 8 years together yesterday, and I wanted to take some time to reflect on what I’ve learned in our time together. The 8 lessons I explore in more detail are:  The more we resist feeling “bad”—the...
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#101 - Overcoming Relationship Anxiety w/ Courtney ParĂŠ

I am so excited to bring you this conversation with Dr. Courtney ParĂŠ, a licensed naturopathic doctor, holistic anxiety coach, speaker, and author. Courtney empowers those facing anxiety and OCD to experience greater...
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#100 - The Love We’ve Learned from 100(!!) Episodes

I can’t believe we’re already at episode 100 of this podcast! After sitting down with 50 guests, there were many lessons learned about love that I wanted to recap and share–so I went back and listened to the final...
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#99 - Lessons from Being in Limbo w/ Ela Topcuoglu

In this episode I am back with past guest, Ela Topcuoglu, who is a Life Transition Coach that helps us intentionally move through life’s big milestone moments (that can often be challenging for someone with anxiety)....
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#98 - Uncovering Inner Peace w/ Lily Sais of @peacefromwithin

In this episode, I sit down with Lily Sais, a former school psychologist turned registered Three Principles practitioner, whose journey has taken her from anxiety to a place of peace. Lily is passionate about helping...
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#97 - My Recurring Relationship Anxiety ‘Theme’

Over the years, there is a recurring ‘theme’ that brings up discomfort for me within my relationship, and that is when things feel boring or mundane. It used to really freak me out, and I would jump to thinking I had...
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#96 - Signs of an Abusive Relationship w/ Dr. Molly Burrets

This is a long overdue episode to explore signs of what an abusive relationship is and isn’t. I often give the disclaimer “my work does not apply to abusive relationships” and wanted to have a licensed therapist...
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