You Love & You Learn Podcast

You Love & You Learn Podcast

Hosted by: Sarah Yudkin

Welcome to the You Love and You Learn podcast, the place to learn about all things love, relationships, relationship anxiety, and deconstructing the one-size-fits-all narrative of what it means to be in a happy...

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#83 - Taking Our Partner Off The Pedestal w/ Charisse Cooke

I loved this conversation because time and time again this comes up in the work I do with clients (and it was a pattern in my own relationship). I sat down with Charisse Cooke, who is a London-based relationship...
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#82 - How to Make Room for More Joy

Do you ever notice yourself feeling good, then suddenly an anxious voice pops up saying “wait, shouldn’t I be worrying about something?” or “if I don’t worry about this–how will I figure it out?”   I’ve been here, and...
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#81 - Staying Grounded During Wedding Planning

In this episode, I share my personal journey from getting engaged (June 2023) to planning my wedding (in May 2025). Thanks to great questions from the You Love and You Learn community…I discuss:   How to enjoy your...
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#80 - Part 2: Setting Boundaries with In-Laws w/ Alexandra Schelling

You asked…we’re answering! Alexandra Schelling (of @toolboxforlove on Instagram) and I polled our communities for questions about navigating our significant other’s families, and we’re answering the questions in a...
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#79 - Part 1: Navigating Family Dynamics: Expectations vs. Reality w/ Alexandra Schelling

You asked…we’re answering! Alexandra Schelling (of @toolboxforlove on Instagram) and I polled our communities for questions about navigating our significant other’s families, and we’re answering the questions in a...
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#78 - From Burnout to Balance: Cycle Syncing w/ Ash McDonald

his episode is a long-time coming, one I have been so excited to record and share with you because I wish more people knew this information! Menstrual cycles can have such a huge effect on how we’re showing up...
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#77 - Helpful Advice From a Divorce Lawyer

I was pleasantly surprised when I listened to a podcast with James Sexton, a divorce lawyer who’s seen the ups and downs of couples for 25+ years in his career and has a lot of wisdom to share from it.    Today’s...
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#76 - A Reframe to Help Relationship Anxiety: Zooming In and Out

This simple reframe has helped me (and dozens of my clients) in moments of relationship anxiety: zooming in when you’re thinking too big-picture, and zooming out when you’re hyper-fixated on something in the present...
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#75 - Healing Unworthiness: From Trauma to Self-Worth w/ Sarah Baldwin

This topic is LONG overdue, and that is feeling unworthy and how this affects our life and the ways we show up in our relationships. I’m thrilled to have had the chance to speak with Sarah Baldwin, who is a Somatic...
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#74 - Speaking Up For Your Needs in a Relationship w/ Gayane Aramyan

Are you clear about what your needs are in a relationship? If so, do you communicate them openly with your partner?  If you answered no to either question, you’ll enjoy this conversation. Our partners cannot read our...
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#73 - What if I've Had Relationship Anxiety/ROCD from the Beginning

Common questions I am asked are “what if I never had a honeymoon phase?” and “is it bad if I’ve had relationship anxiety/ROCD from the beginning of my relationship?”    My two cents is how long we’ve had RA/ROCD is...
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#72 - Is it Normal For Healthy Love to Feel Boring?

Have you ever felt bored in your relationship and worried that something is wrong? Maybe you’ve wondered “is this normal, shouldn’t things feel more exciting than this?” I’ve been there, and this has been a trigger I...
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