You Love & You Learn Podcast

You Love & You Learn Podcast

Hosted by: Sarah Yudkin

Welcome to the You Love and You Learn podcast, the place to learn about all things love, relationships, relationship anxiety, and deconstructing the one-size-fits-all narrative of what it means to be in a happy...

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#59 - Sex, Anxiety, and Sex Anxiety

If our sex life doesn’t match the steamy scenes from the movies, it can bring up a lot of anxiety: ā€œam I with the right partner sexually?ā€ ā€œare we having enough sex?ā€ ā€œis our sex passionate enough?ā€ etc. And the...
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#58 - 5 Life-Changing Relationship Rules w/ Kimberley Quinlan

In this episode, I talk with Kimberley Quinlan, LMFT, about 5 relationship rules that changed her life. She’s been married for 20 years and has so much wisdom to share. Ā  Here’s a sneak peek at the 5 life-changing...
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#57 - "Do I Stay, or Do I Go?"

ā€œDo I stay or go?ā€ ā€œHow do I know if a relationship is worth saving?ā€ These are not-so-simple questions to answer, and can cause a lot of discomfort because of the uncertainty they drum up.Ā  Ā  In this episode, I...
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#56 - "Are We Too Different?"

Have you ever wondered if you and your partner are too different? Too many personality clashes? ā€œHow will this ever work?ā€ Ā  In today’s episode I explore why personality differences can feel so threatening and...
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#55 - The Gifts of Long Distance Relationships w/Hannah of @healingwithhan__

Long distance relationships can be very challenging, especially if you’re getting pressure from external sources. ā€œWhen are you going to be living together?ā€ ā€œAre you sure you’re not wasting your time?ā€ ā€œYou should...
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#54 - Jealous About Your Partner's Past? w/ Eva Thompson

Have you ever been jealous (or extremely jealous) of your partner’s past? Perhaps you’ve ruminated on their ex’s, asked them questions about their past, or felt like you can’t compare to people they’ve dated or been...
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#53 - Comparison in Relationships

Do you tend to compare your relationship to others a lot? Does it make you feel like your relationship isn’t up to par? I’m right there with ya—comparison is something I’ve had a hard time with for most of my life....
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#52 - Leaning into Discomfort in Your Relationship w/ Robert James

In this episode, I sit down with Robert James, an OCD & anxiety coach who having spent years struggling with OCD, finally learned to overcome & now helps others to do the same. We talked all about what it...
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#51 - 6 Ways to Manage Relationship Impostor Syndrome

Do you ever worry that other people will discover that your relationship isn’t as shiny and perfect as they think it is? Or that you’ll somehow be exposed for experiencing relationship anxiety? In this episode I’m...
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#50 - How Default Survival Responses Affect Relationships w/ Amanda Armstrong

In this episode I got to sit down with Amanda Armstrong who is a neuroscience and trauma-informed anxiety & depression coach. Amanda helped share more about how to understand our and our partner’s default survival...
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#49 - Let Go of Controlling Habits in Your Relationship w/ Natalie of @anxiouslovecoach

One of the most challenging things to practice in relationships (and life) is releasing control of things that are not in our control. And one thing that is most definitely not in our control is our partner (or any...
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#48 - Behind-the-Scenes of My Life and Relationship Amidst a Transitional Time

In this solo episode I’m sharing 7 reflections that have come up (or revisited my consciousness) over the last few months since moving home from Sweden with Nate. This is me pulling the curtain back and sharing some...
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